Posted in Adoption, Election 2016, Hillary, Trauma, Trump

An Open Letter to the America My Children Have to Grow up In

I’m done!

Enough is enough!

Are we not ashamed of ourselves yet?

This has been the worst of all election years I can remember. I have never in my life had to sit through and endure the ignorance that is the media today. I never as a child heard the crazy that came with the private lives of those in office, why? Because the private lives of those around us are just that, PRIVATE. What are they going to do for us as Americans, should’t that be the question? What are their policies, where do they stand on the important issues, will they be able to stand up to those that would hurt us as a people? These should be what the topic of conversations are, but instead it is “locker room” talk, laws broken and dismissed, and all the ugly that comes with this world as a whole. Let me first say that I am over the excuses that both sides of the tantrum throwing parties have been throwing out there. My son does not need to hear, from all those that are praying Trump gets it, that his speaking as disgusting and vile as he was is excusable because that is just how guys talk. Now, while I am on this topic let me just tell you that if you read ’50 Shades of Gray’ I don’t wanna hear any “Amen sister!” out of you. I don’t want my daughters thinking it is ok that men see them as a good time and a means to an enjoyable end. Now if you listen to Howard Stern then keep your “That a girl” to yourselves as well.

We are a nation of hypocrites!

We watch shows and movies that are pretty much soft core porn and then we attack the moral standing of a candidate that has had the hard knock of being recorded for all to see him in one of his darkest moments as a human. Heck, some of you that are so vocal and upset actually watch the real deal porn and then call others dirty dogs! The music the youth of our country are listening to is full of hate, disrespect of woman, and an all around lack of moral lives. They sing of killing not just cops but anyone that disagrees with them, they sing of cheating on your spouse or with someone else’s spouse because it’s fun and you only live once. Our daughters dress with as little fabric as possible stretched as tight as it can and we call the boys that can’t peel their eyes away perverts. Our sons have their butts hanging out of their pants and wear shirts that promote drugs, sex, and killing and we tell them if someone doesn’t wanna hire them it isn’t their fault. We have forgotten how to teach respect and we no longer expect it. Children are being stolen off the streets and sold into a life of sex trade and we are talking about being offended by a man speaking vile things to another excuse for a man. Haiti has had over 500 people killed by a hurricane and we wanna see more leaked emails to prove even further that the woman running for president of this morally corrupt country shouldn’t even be allowed to run. Our cops are being slaughtered and there is a  conversation among some that say “well, its been coming for a while now.” We have a people of  our nation that have mothers fearing if their sons will come home because of their skin tone and we are still pointing fingers. We are a mess and there is no hope of getting straightened out if we don’t open our eyes to the trash that we have become used to and therefore comfortable with until someone we don’t like comes along and wades in our pool of filth causing us to point out the nasty that is dripping off them when they try to get out. Seriously!?

The people of this country go about their business for three years, laughing at coarse jokes, singing along with trash lyrics, following the nude Instagram of the latest hot mess, ignoring those that are in need, and fearing what tomorrow will bring in the world of terrorism. Then magically  about the fourth year we all became moral compasses pointing out the impurities in the candidates lives that we have been living ourselves. It is madness! We have two of the most morally corrupt people in history running for the most powerful position in the world and it is the fault of the people. We have been poisoned with the kool aid we are now angry they are offering but we won’t stop drinking it. We have become a nation of hateful ME monsters and in our wake we are leaving children at the doorstep of trauma.

Is it really a surprise our nation is on the brink of disaster? Look at what we are ok with, babies murdered in the womb with conversations that maybe it is ok to go ahead and kill them after birth. Rome did that. We are showing more and more sexual explicit actions on prime time TV with our children sitting right beside us watching it happen. Rome did that. Our men are becoming women and our women becoming men. Rome did that. The churches are no longer a place to run to heal but rather a place of persecution. Rome did that. We have made our leaders, actors, and famous our gods. Rome did that. Christians are being called hateful and too set in their old-fashioned ways and they need to change their beliefs. Germany did that. Our guns are being threatened to be taken. Germany did that. Every empire has fallen after they stop living the lives of moral people, as they have taken their eyes off what is good and right and turned to lives of pleasure at all costs, the dictators step into control without notice, and then it is too late.

Is it too late for us?

How can we turn this around?

Start living lives that we claim we believe in during election years. Get angry that the men of this country are ok with children being used for their pleasure and that the term “locker room talk” isn’t talking about sports. Show grace and mercy to those that are in need of it. Offer a kind word to those that might not deserve it. Raise children to be respectful and stop buying the trash music this world is offering them. Force Hollywood and the powers that be to stop pushing the limits of morals and shoving it down our kids throats by not buying their posion. Go on a hike with your kids, love your neighbor, be faithful to your spouse, guard your eyes and mouth, and start demanding we are offered candidates that are worthy of this great country and our trust. Our children deserve a better world and so I write…….